Mood: bright
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What an AMAZING weekend!
There are so many things going on behind the scenes, just as with life, some good and some bad. No parent should ever tell their children or adult children how they should or should not feel. It's not only wrong to not allow people the right to go through emotions, but as well, it is downright unhealthy. I don't take things that have transpired over the past 5 years very lightly nor should anyone assume, that we don't take it very seriously.
Over this past year, we have bravely put on warrior masks during cancer treatments, other treatments and more surgical procedures that we could had ever imagined in one single year. To set the facts straight with one particular cousin named, Tammy and a few others. We had to remove ourselves from some blood members for almost a year, due to not by our choice, but per the advice of a team of specialists and oncologists who insisted that family stress, if continued, could not only cause a major delay in post-treatment recovery, but could as well, be fatal when it comes to your health. There are times when we caught holy hell from blood members, for stories that were not about them, although they assumed, but instead from other readers, those like you, who choose to be anonymous and now, a publishing company who is proud of their dedicated blogger. A writer who has a passion in writing. This blog will live on with the help of a very reputable publishing company.
There are permalink readers, that have shared their stories with us over the years. We have used more stories that we can count and for those kind, compassionate, brave souls. Our hearts go out to you. It takes a strong person, a hell of a strong person to be OK with their feelings and emotions. For those who are braver than you will ever know... WE thank YOU! XOXOXOXO
To those over this past year, that put their necks on the chopping block, because they cared, those who put their own relationships with family members on the line, because they did not agree. Even those whom never understood how families can keep the next generation from having the opportunity to know their families. What you have reached out over this past year, to let us know, has never fell on deaf ears. To read about, see and look at photos of events that even little E, our son, was not included, is not only sad, but disturbing.
We may not like the emails we read, to see all the photos and other information that goes along with more than 100+ emails, but it is a must. For both of us. We must come to terms with everything. Through struggles, we have learned a lot. We have gained a lot. We appreciate the little things in life so much more!
I am a far more wiser person for the lessons learned.
For those who tell their blood relatives or adult children what they can or can not say. What they can or can not feel. To those who told us this week and told others how this blog is so negative, among other things, do yourself a favor. Especially do a huge favor for those who contribute to this blog. Those who also enjoy this blog and actually look forward to reading it. Do new permalink readers a favor, those waiting to sign up. Remove yourself from this blog and all links attached. If you don't like what you are reading, then why read it? It's that easy. Don't read the blog.
We plan on reading every single email this week, look at every single photo from what we were excluded from over this past year. All 100+ emails. Some even, years prior to this past year. We both plan on allowing ourselves the much needed closure to permanently move on... There are so many amazing, compassionate, kind hearted, good folks in this world. We refuse to here on out, allow great and amazing future friends and framily (friends who are family) for life, slip through our hands.
It's finally time to make peace with what is, what used to be, and those whom will never be again...
The choice is ours for the taking. Out with the negative! In with the positive!
Time to be truly and genuinely HAPPY
~H.B.D