Can you believe that it will be summer before you know it? Yes exactly what I was thinking and so were our visitors this afternoon who came to pay us a visit and to see how much further all of the wild flowers and deer follage seeds have been growing.
This is what I love most about living in the country... away from the hustle and bustle of City Life. Everything is at a much slower pace as well as the greenery scene is just that much greener! I even saw my very first butterfly this evening with the colors of blue as blue can be!
My labs came back this morning which unfortunately showed another acute infection due to the large ovarian tumor leaking. We also didn't realize what all is involved with repositioning organs that have collapsed as two of my new surgeons are scrambling to try to figure out rhyme and reason. Their guess is pretty logical to me... but it falls under that less than 5% with long-term gynecological cancer survivors. So I will continue on this newest regimen of antibiotics and do my best to get my body prepared for surgery. We were told that I need to start walking regardless of the pain because it will help with recovery. So... by the looks and sounds of this podcast~blogcast... walking it will be!
Over the years I have been given some very strong and Sound Advice as well have taken advice from those who have more wisdom by experience... not necessarily by age. Thank you to those who continue to be of great support and lending an ear... but most importantly helping by their own experience throughout their journey to help me with decisions regarding my own health. Let's also not forget personal matters.
As once again.. I receive a call and screenshot this evening regarding my ex-spouse who tries to remain part of the immediate family by still contacting the ex in-laws which is crazy within itself. Even stranger is when any sibling that tells you that you need to divorce your spouse immediately after they were found breaking and entering into the in-laws home and grandparents home stealing prescriptions, prescription drugs and money... making sure to tell the sibling that had not a clue of what was happening with their ex-spouse until their own prescriptions written and other prescription medication disappeared and was found forged with the ex-spouse caught on video at Walgreens... because if you stay married to him it looks crazy to everyone and it's hurtful... then in turn any sibling that reaches back out to the same ex-spouse after the divorce has been granted is even crazier. An ex-spouse doing his best to make a mockery out of this podcast~blogcast and skits on a public Facebook page. Yes, some folks become so fixated on you that they just can't stop watching and stalking your every move. Per my own personal experience... you cannot rhyme and reason with those who have addiction problems and that cannot move forward or on with their lives. But here is what was wrote... Because we think it's important folks that you all see what kind of individuals that you need to stay away from that are unstable when making such comments regarding an ex-spouse that they can't get over by any means. Which is why we made the decision to move out of state almost 2 years ago.
Another sad reality for any parent who tells her daughter that their eldest adult child is not in contact and shouldn't be for any reason in contact with any ex-spouse. Welll Mom... I told you I wasn't lying and although the truth is sometimes hard to swallow. At least we all can now clearly see why the dysfunction within the immediate family spiraled for so many years out of control. You can blame it on one side... but it isn't our little family.
When you allow someone to break and enter into your home and even your own mother's home... our grandmother... for over a year without your knowledge or hell... even without myself or Erics knowledge and then in turn not take the necessary steps to press charges... things like this continue to happen and regardless of any child or adult child's age... as a parent it is your responsibility to protect them until the end of time. When someone is stealing your money, your prescription drugs, your mother's prescription drugs and other valuables to feed addictions and you don't stop and do something about it.... you are literally enabling the addict for years to come.
One of the best... if not the best decision we've ever made for ourselves and our little family was indeed picking up the pieces and moving out of state... moving on.
For anyone else out there who has any ex or ex-spouse that continues to stalk and follow your every move... look at it from a different point of view because I consider it as nothing but the utmost flattery. Considerate it the best compliment yet! You know... this kinda reminds me of the story from the Deputy the other day about his brother doing funny skits and videos to help during his own cancer journey. And how some twisted folks like this one whom don't even understand that this is a funny, not emmy nominated skits... SILLY! His brother got his own personal crazies who took the time to twist and turn things around on the various video satires that he did over the months to help bring laughter during a time when he needed it the most.
Getting the screenshots only did one thing... provided more videos in the making for this podcast~blogcast channel.. HEHEHEHEHEHE!
But such as with everything in life... carry on my good friends as I have learned to do many times over. There is nothing wrong with trying... but everything wrong with giving up hope. There's a 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and so on with everything in life. That also includes once again tackling the treadmill as I will attempt doing this evening.
I don't know what I'm smiling more about right now? One perfectly amazing gift from my spouse for Mother's Day that I plan on conquering to the best of my ability. Or having proof that my ex-spouse still admires me from a far distance out of state and still takes the time to follow and talk about me even if it's good or even if it's bad because I consider it flattery at it's finest. I guess some ex-spouses just have a special way to continue holding you close to their heart and loving you till the end of time all the same.. even after you divorce them... like I did many years ago. Like Eric said, "Who you got to feel sorry for is the new love interests and one live in interest that has to always play second fiddle 'still' to the ex spouse." Would I be okay with Eric contacting any ex or ex-spouse? No way. Eric totally feels the same way but that's what you do when you respect someone that you live with or married to... after you are divorced and suppose to had moved on from your ex.
Yep! Very valid point!
Cheers to a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious day!
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