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This blog was going to be about a phone call I received this evening. That went into another wild, questionable ride. But...it has no place in today's blog. Because today was all about celebrating! A celebration of many sorts! What happens when Wonder Woman & Superman achieve the unthinkable!
To most...
The IMPOSSIBLE!
There is a lot going on behind the scenes in our life that had to be put under wraps. Some...for legal reasons. Others...for personal reasons.
Today was the ending, yet the beginning. A lot of mystery wrapped up for the taking! Medically, this morning I finally received a few phone calls and emails regarding last weeks hospital testing and procedure. Pending labs and other factors that finally allowed for myself and my team of doctors to understand the next chapter of my journey. I had been dealing with new symptoms as of early May, this year. However, it had taken months to finally be diagnosed with connected complications from what could never be defied during last years oncology treatments and radiation therapy. When treatments fail. You can expect things to progress. It was always anticipated.
Since being denied a temporary work permit, time and time again. I had decided to build my own case and present it to social security. I know there are avenues that I must cross and hurdles I must jump in front of me. Yet, somehow I always still believed. Where there is a WILL...there will be a WAY. Our medical bills and prescription drug costs are surmounting. Add that onto all of the out-of-pocket costs for home repairs. It's been downright financially CRAZY! Yet, we remained determined as ever to stay focused and not allow the stress to get the best of us. Today we both achieved major monumental success! Not just success in the making. But so much more for the taking!
This afternoon, I received a final approval letter for a temporary work permit from social security, SSD. Of course, there are quite a few restrictions. I must first get current health issues stabilized and produce a letter from my lead specialist. Secondly, I am only permitted to work from home on a temporary work permit. After being denied the right to receive a temporary work permit so many times before with an attorney. I decided to tackle the huge feat on my own. First and foremost...being honest with what we are experiencing. Financially speaking. There is something to be said for being real with others. Most importantly...honest with yourself. Finally having the chance, if I can possibly and successfully get current health issues under control, to at least try working. Is something that I never thought I would ever have the chance to ever do again. At least...not in this lifetime. I know that the current hurdle with my health that I must jump will be quite challenging. But just look how far I have come! Anything is possible...if you believe in yourself...FIRST.
I don't know how long, it could be a month or two before current medical issues can be stabilized to the best of my specialists ability. Over the years, this blog has not only been a blessing for me, emotionally. But it could as well become a blessing for me...for US...financially. Time will only time. More of that to follow.
This morning there was another great achievement in the making! This time...for Eric. There are not enough words to express how very proud I am of my husband. There are not enough words to express just how much hard work and far too many hours that he put into a massive lawsuit. Massive...because he represented...HIMSELF this morning. It wasn't just a lot of hard work and far too many hours over the past several+ months getting the case together. But as well he did so while still working full time with the Sheriff's department, along with doing whatever overtime was available for the taking. If that's not a true SUPERMAN...Eric also took on the roll of being not just my spouse. It was Eric who has been there for me. My SUPERMAN.
They say that a strong couple can literally move mountains together. I say that a really strong couple can move more than mountains when their hearts are in the right place...together. Faith also goes hand in hand.
We both were given the heads-up with regards to my symptoms a little over 2 months ago. Due to my body no longer able to handle any kind of stress. It wasn't just the need to place healthy boundaries with family and hospital privacy. This mornings final hearing was to also include my testimony. But instead of two...Eric bravely became one. There is so much to be said for defying the odds. When those who believe you can't represent yourself as your own attorney. Stood face-to-face this morning with Eric. Representing himself as not only his own attorney. But believing enough in himself that, YES! you CAN! I am darn proud of Eric! He did it all on his own! Maybe with the help of myself through out the months. But it was US...together that helped to achieve so much more! Regardless who wins. It was never about the money. It's about human decency. It's about how we treat one another. In a real estate game and a contract about he said, she said. No one really comes out a winner in the court of law. But over this past year we truly have!
The ability to learn and in turn gain a lifetime of wisdom and knowledge is priceless! It truly is our reward for all the hard work and it's ours for the taking.
Who would had thought that US...Husband and wife...could go where most would never dare or even so much to dream ever before...
We have proved that together you can move mountains^^^
WONDER WOMAN & SUPERMAN
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