Our Beloved Littleblue
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At exactly 6am. One single phone call forever changed our life.
Again.
All the signs...They had meaning. God was ready.
We had just fallen asleep which felt like for only a mere hour. I dreaded answering the phone. My heart sank as one of the veterinarians told me that Littleblue was in further distress. Struggling to breathe and could barely hang on. Without hesitation, we quickly got up, got dressed and headed back across state lines. Back to Ohio in hopes of being able to be blessed by the good Lord. One single prayer last night would be answered. That I may be blessed to hold our beloved Littleblue before the angels bring her back home to heaven.
6:10am.
I don't remember much about the drive. Except looking up to see sunrays shining down through the front window. Another sign as the time was coming close for Littleblue. As we came upon traffic on the expressway at a standstill. I began to panic in fear that I would not make it in time. But God had other plans in mind. My prayer had been answered. Once again...I was forever blessed to be with my fur child during her last breath.
As soon as we arrived at the animal hospital. One of the surgeons assistants took us back into a room. Within only a mere minute we were told that Littleblue had taken a turn for the worse around 6am. The time when we received the call. I did my best to stay strong. But once they walked us back into the surgical room and towards the oxygen chamber. We saw how hard Littleblue was struggling to breathe as my heart literally sank. We have suffered a tremendous loss over the past 5 years with our beloved fur children. Oreo, Bear, Pumpkin and Precious passed away from cancer between the ages of 15-18 years young. Only 6 months ago we had lost our beloved Lucky kitty after just turning 4 years young from a blood clot that went to her heart due to a genetic heart defect. It seems so unfair that we have to once again come face-to-face with the most evil medical condition of all...Cancer.
We had just celebrated Littleblue's 10th birthday last week. We had just celebrated a tremendous cancer surgery success removing what I always felt deep in my heart. A very aggressive and malicious cancer. Dr. T's quick thinking and emergency surgery saved Littleblue's life. But this morning no one could save Littleblue's life. The feeling of upmost despair is how I would describe losing a fur child. Even more so when you share a common condition. Cancer. We had done everything in our humanly power to help save our Littleblue for a second time. But this morning we found ourselves helpless and one aggressive cancer downright unforgiving. What we experienced and witnessed first hand watching our beloved Littleblue still shakes me to the very core. Watching a fur child struggle to breathe is devastating. My heart broke in two.
Once Littleblue could raise her head up enough to realize that the comforting hand was her human momma and her human daddy on the other side along with her favorite stuffed animal, Mr. Zebra. Littleblue began to go into further distress as tears started rolling down her eyes. I broke down. Eric broke down. The entire surgical room became quiet as Littleblue lifted her head one final time and looked at me with the most sad blue eyes while our veterinarian helped assist our little girl one final time. That moment will forever be engraved in my heart. A piece of my heart is forever gone. As Littleblue began to bravely fight one last time as she struggled to take one final breath. I quickly opened the other side of the large oxygen chamber and cradled her. My last words to my brave and most beautiful little girl, "I love you my Littleblue Angel." As I placed my other hand over her heart and waited for the last and final beat. 10 years quickly passed through me like a ray of light. Myself and Eric...Completely devastated. Life once again is forever changed. There are no words to describe the unconditional love that all of my fur children have provided me through out my lifetime. During my most difficult times, they have always been by my side. A love that never faulted. A bond that could never be broken. A love that I wish could last a lifetime.
Life isn't always fair. This morning life was most certainly...Not fair.
There has only been one other time in my lifetime that I have watched another life be taken by cancer that had affected the lungs. That was my beloved aunt whom I also watched struggle till the end. I was forever blessed to be the chosen one by God to hold her hand and see her through the end of her journey and back home to heaven. You never forget. Regardless of human or animal life. One of the most devastating ways in my mind will always be watching those who struggle to breathe all the way to the end of their life. Cancer not only hits hard with our little family. But it's even more so when on a personal level. Watching once again, but this time my beloved fur child Littleblue struggle by the hands of cancer taking her final breath changes a person. I am not the same person who walked into those front doors of the animal hospital. I don't know anyone who is the same after walking away from witnessing such a heartbreaking loss of life.
For everyone. Minus a very close and dear friend of 10 years who resides as well in Indiana. This is the first time I have shared the news of Littleblue's passing. I still have yet to turn on my phone due to the overwhelming loss and sadness. It will be awhile for myself and Eric. There has been so much sadness in our lives and so much loss that it has become overwhelming for both of us. The saying is not true. It does not get any easier losing another family member. A beloved fur child, who now takes with her, a piece of our heart.
After blessing our Littleblue with sacred water I received years ago blessed by a priest in France. Eric pulled the car around to the back of the animal hospital and together we carefully wrapped Littleblue in her favorite winter blankets. While Eric drove back across state lines to our home in Indiana. I held Littleblue in my lap along with her favorite stuffed animals. It was time to bring Littleblue home so the rest of our fur children could say goodbye and spend some time with her. The same way I have done for all of our beloved fur children. I wouldn't have it any other way.
An hour might not seem like a lot of time before having to drive back across state lines for a private crematory service.
But that hour spending time as a family is something that even at the end.
Cancer can never, ever take away.
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Updated: June 6, 2017 5:31 AM EDT